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Just as with adults, children also have a period where they feel frustrated, angry, emotion, and annoyance. It could have been triggered by a disturbance from outside, namely the people who were around him, or things that are difficult to do so he feels he failed. Even while playing with his friends too, often emotionally ignited, until finally there was grumbling.
How do we help children absorb emotion?
Teach them to negotiate and compromise with others. It is very necessary for a child, namely to train the ability to express opinions and to train to want to listen to others, even his own. So children need to know that they do not need to argue or quarrels with other children which often triggers quarrel.
Tell them that they do not have to play the hand, pushing, hitting, or punching his friend in time odds. Be assertive when you see it is so easy when he hit his friend in the emotion. Say, that attitude is not the right attitude, and you and other people will never like it.
Teach them to say with a good and decent reasons why they feel disturbed. And train them to express it to people or other kids who made him feel so. For example, "excuse me, I do not like it when you grab toys without permission. If you're being polite, I would lend it to you, "etc..
If the children have started to argue, take a cautious attitude. You can watch while reminding them: "come on, to convey your wishes with a fine,". And if they have started to hit each other, immediately separate the children from children who lain.Minta them to calm down. Remember, we should not follow emotions.
Listen to the reasons children and do not ever take sides on one child. Often times as parents, we sided with the children themselves when they fight, though he was wrong. Or, often blame the older child, but it is true. Well, that's what parents are required to arbitrate a wise and fair, impartial one.
Offer to help them to solve every problem. Just tell me frankly, that sometimes even adults need help from others to solve their problems. So it is not necessary until a big fight. Even children too.
Give hugs and kisses dear to those who are willing to admit mistakes, want to hold back, and willing to be patient. This as evidence that you appreciate their efforts no matter how small it is. Your appreciation will make them to fight even harder.
How do we help children absorb emotion?
Teach them to negotiate and compromise with others. It is very necessary for a child, namely to train the ability to express opinions and to train to want to listen to others, even his own. So children need to know that they do not need to argue or quarrels with other children which often triggers quarrel.
Tell them that they do not have to play the hand, pushing, hitting, or punching his friend in time odds. Be assertive when you see it is so easy when he hit his friend in the emotion. Say, that attitude is not the right attitude, and you and other people will never like it.
Teach them to say with a good and decent reasons why they feel disturbed. And train them to express it to people or other kids who made him feel so. For example, "excuse me, I do not like it when you grab toys without permission. If you're being polite, I would lend it to you, "etc..
If the children have started to argue, take a cautious attitude. You can watch while reminding them: "come on, to convey your wishes with a fine,". And if they have started to hit each other, immediately separate the children from children who lain.Minta them to calm down. Remember, we should not follow emotions.
Listen to the reasons children and do not ever take sides on one child. Often times as parents, we sided with the children themselves when they fight, though he was wrong. Or, often blame the older child, but it is true. Well, that's what parents are required to arbitrate a wise and fair, impartial one.
Offer to help them to solve every problem. Just tell me frankly, that sometimes even adults need help from others to solve their problems. So it is not necessary until a big fight. Even children too.
Give hugs and kisses dear to those who are willing to admit mistakes, want to hold back, and willing to be patient. This as evidence that you appreciate their efforts no matter how small it is. Your appreciation will make them to fight even harder.
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