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The kids basically did not take long to realize that they are responsible for their own self. And though we are parents, and they know it, usually they will refuse to do something they do not want to do.
You do not need to worry. Because this phase is a natural stage. Since the age of 2 years, children begin to realize the function of their bodies, they begin to realize the existence of human beings to become independent. They like to explore and try different things, even if it is dangerous.
The behavior of these children, sometimes seem stubborn or naughty. So we would spontaneously say "you naughty boy" to them. Wow ... should we refrain from prior dahulu.Sebab, basically, there are no children who want to be naughty, or wanted to become juvenile delinquents. However, as parents we are the ones who created the "naughty personal" with the "verdict" that is too fast we put to them.
Then, how to improve the behavior of these children so that they can be directed to the children who behave well?
1. Learning to listen. Children will begin to do act when they feel dicuekin alias does not get your attention. By acting up, they believe, even though it was your anger, but they get your attention. Well, now, learn to be a good listener for them. Whatever it is ridiculous. The important thing is we are able to make them feel valued and able to lead them for the better.
2. Respect their feelings. Children are children. Not adults. They do not understand the distress-distress or difficult circumstances faced by parents. Thought they were too plain, so they do not understand how they should do.
3. Put forward your opinion. Although as parents we have the right to set-ngatur and give them commands and prohibitions, however, it's good we say it in the form of an opinion. It is more wise, considering that these children still hold very plain, and they must learn to determine and make a good decision for themselves. For example, when your child does not want a bath, we can not always scold and shout to tell them to bathe. But, try to put forward our opinion with more friendly, "said the mother, you better look good after you shower. And there will be a lot of friends who want to play with you. If you do not shower, hmm ... mother think of your friends will be away from you and do not want to play with you. "
4. Let, yet alert. When children begin to act and want to try everything, even things that are dangerous, try occasionally to let them. Let them feel the consequences of their actions. But, of course, after you notify the consequences.
5. Be a lean back and place for them. Although they made a mistake, we as parents is to place children "back" when they are overwhelmed with problems. As parents, we should not have too judgmental child until the child must feel not to have anyone who loves them in this world. When they make mistakes, then we are the ones who should be reminded, as well as helping them to get together to fix these errors.
You do not need to worry. Because this phase is a natural stage. Since the age of 2 years, children begin to realize the function of their bodies, they begin to realize the existence of human beings to become independent. They like to explore and try different things, even if it is dangerous.
The behavior of these children, sometimes seem stubborn or naughty. So we would spontaneously say "you naughty boy" to them. Wow ... should we refrain from prior dahulu.Sebab, basically, there are no children who want to be naughty, or wanted to become juvenile delinquents. However, as parents we are the ones who created the "naughty personal" with the "verdict" that is too fast we put to them.
Then, how to improve the behavior of these children so that they can be directed to the children who behave well?
1. Learning to listen. Children will begin to do act when they feel dicuekin alias does not get your attention. By acting up, they believe, even though it was your anger, but they get your attention. Well, now, learn to be a good listener for them. Whatever it is ridiculous. The important thing is we are able to make them feel valued and able to lead them for the better.
2. Respect their feelings. Children are children. Not adults. They do not understand the distress-distress or difficult circumstances faced by parents. Thought they were too plain, so they do not understand how they should do.
3. Put forward your opinion. Although as parents we have the right to set-ngatur and give them commands and prohibitions, however, it's good we say it in the form of an opinion. It is more wise, considering that these children still hold very plain, and they must learn to determine and make a good decision for themselves. For example, when your child does not want a bath, we can not always scold and shout to tell them to bathe. But, try to put forward our opinion with more friendly, "said the mother, you better look good after you shower. And there will be a lot of friends who want to play with you. If you do not shower, hmm ... mother think of your friends will be away from you and do not want to play with you. "
4. Let, yet alert. When children begin to act and want to try everything, even things that are dangerous, try occasionally to let them. Let them feel the consequences of their actions. But, of course, after you notify the consequences.
5. Be a lean back and place for them. Although they made a mistake, we as parents is to place children "back" when they are overwhelmed with problems. As parents, we should not have too judgmental child until the child must feel not to have anyone who loves them in this world. When they make mistakes, then we are the ones who should be reminded, as well as helping them to get together to fix these errors.
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