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As parents, we often do not realize that we have been taught something wrong to our children. We require children to not make mistakes, but we ourselves do these errors.
What are they?Here are 5 wrong attitude most often done by parents, consciously or unconsciously:
1. Lying. We are not happy if the kids started talking a lie and deceive us. We will be angry and often punish such lies. However, we know, that children learn to lie from her parents? Unconsciously, we often give the wrong example and teach them to lie. Small example, we persuaded them with false lure of like, "if you want quiet and stop crying, the mother will buy you an ice cream tomorrow." In fact, the reality is you do not buy him ice cream. Or, when people come asking for a donation, you ask him to come out and say, "My mama is not no home, Mom was away" and the like with it.
2. Backbiting or gossiping. It is a correction for all of us. Often times we forget, that we teach children to talk and gossip that are less useful to others. When visiting for example, we just talk about shame-shame others, and the kids hear it. It would be nice if we gave them an example to talk the things that are useful and full of knowledge.
3. Log in someone else's house without permission and greeting. There is a habit which we are pleased to enter other people's homes without permission and greeting. For example, a neighbor's house is already very familiar or the family home and relatives. Although we are very familiar and it is our own relatives, it would be glorious if we still uphold adab-adab a guest who had been taught by Islam. Greetings, knock on the door, and being polite is the Messenger of noble character who has been taught. If we get the kids behave in accordance with the guidance of adab, so until he grows and mature he will always maintain adab-adab you have taught them.
4. Does not pray on time and putting off to the mosque. We often shout, "let's pray, is prayer!", To our children. Ask them to hurry up prayers and went to the mosque for prayers congregation. However, it turns out we do not give an example to them. We often delay the prayer, or even from praying in the mosque. The kids would see and imitate it all. How can we prosecute children better than us if we do not give a good example for them?
5. Not be fair. Kids are often arguing and disagreements between the one with the other. However, as parents, we should be in the middle and not being "biased" aka favor one child. If a child is wrong, we should be able to advise him wisely, punish proportionately, and not always bob up and down his mistake. Teach children to forgive each other and are willing to admit their mistakes. Thus, no child who feels isolated while others are in "child emaskan" by us.Let us learn to fix these mistakes and saying : "STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST CHILDRENS"
What are they?Here are 5 wrong attitude most often done by parents, consciously or unconsciously:
1. Lying. We are not happy if the kids started talking a lie and deceive us. We will be angry and often punish such lies. However, we know, that children learn to lie from her parents? Unconsciously, we often give the wrong example and teach them to lie. Small example, we persuaded them with false lure of like, "if you want quiet and stop crying, the mother will buy you an ice cream tomorrow." In fact, the reality is you do not buy him ice cream. Or, when people come asking for a donation, you ask him to come out and say, "My mama is not no home, Mom was away" and the like with it.
2. Backbiting or gossiping. It is a correction for all of us. Often times we forget, that we teach children to talk and gossip that are less useful to others. When visiting for example, we just talk about shame-shame others, and the kids hear it. It would be nice if we gave them an example to talk the things that are useful and full of knowledge.
3. Log in someone else's house without permission and greeting. There is a habit which we are pleased to enter other people's homes without permission and greeting. For example, a neighbor's house is already very familiar or the family home and relatives. Although we are very familiar and it is our own relatives, it would be glorious if we still uphold adab-adab a guest who had been taught by Islam. Greetings, knock on the door, and being polite is the Messenger of noble character who has been taught. If we get the kids behave in accordance with the guidance of adab, so until he grows and mature he will always maintain adab-adab you have taught them.
4. Does not pray on time and putting off to the mosque. We often shout, "let's pray, is prayer!", To our children. Ask them to hurry up prayers and went to the mosque for prayers congregation. However, it turns out we do not give an example to them. We often delay the prayer, or even from praying in the mosque. The kids would see and imitate it all. How can we prosecute children better than us if we do not give a good example for them?
5. Not be fair. Kids are often arguing and disagreements between the one with the other. However, as parents, we should be in the middle and not being "biased" aka favor one child. If a child is wrong, we should be able to advise him wisely, punish proportionately, and not always bob up and down his mistake. Teach children to forgive each other and are willing to admit their mistakes. Thus, no child who feels isolated while others are in "child emaskan" by us.Let us learn to fix these mistakes and saying : "STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST CHILDRENS"
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