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Adolescence is the most difficult stage through which the parents and children in their relationship. During this period the parents and child conflicts often occur. More often than childhood and adulthood. They are much more in need of motivation, guidance, direction, but their attitude seems no longer need their parents. They prefer to gather with the community or friends sepermainan, like keeping secrets from parents, and tend to be more sensitive.
How to motivate them to stay in a corridor that true?Actually, the strength of the motivation lies in the quality of the relationship between parents and adolescents. If we and the teens have a good relationship and strong, so will the children teen is more likely to have a healthy outlook and tend to be easily motivated.
Mothers who always pay attention to his son, always there when they need it, and wise in dealing with them, or a father who wisely and not authoritarian, willing to take the time to gather with the kids, and able to be a friend to their children, will usually be more easy reliable and more easily followed by their teenage children.
As with the parents who tend to wash their hands, indifferent, lack of care for children, too busy working, authoritarian, and even being too hard on his children. Such parents will be very difficult to manage and motivate their children.
Teenagers can not we treat as a child. But they also can not treat us as adults, although sometimes they try to behave like an adult. We can no longer dictate them to do what we want. However, we must ask what exactly they want from their lives.
Take time. Never use the excuse "busy work" with no attention to your children. The consequences of having children is that we should take the time, how busy, to them. If we are oppressed economic problems, we also still have to give them a special time to give attention to them.
Always ask, what help we can do for them. Not the dictation, but ask. That's the point. By asking and declare our readiness to help them, it would really make them feel significant and appreciated.
Do not go emotional. Teenagers usually tend to be more emotional. So, as parents, we are the ones who should be able to cool. Do not be emotional bandwagon! Because if we go ignited, which is not a solution, but a war! If there is debate, it is useful to step back and say, "Let us cool heads and our hearts first, and we continue this after everything was better and we can together use the language better."
Frequently communicate. Remember, often communicating does not mean nagging or constantly monitor them wherever they go and always wanted to know what they are doing. Not that. But, let them know that we believe they are capable of doing the best things in their lives. For example, they were outside the home, simply send an SMS, "May your activities fun, and she hoped that you could go home for lunch with his mother and sister at home."
Give responsibility. Encourage children to take responsibility for their own personal. For example, they should be responsible for the cleanliness of rooms and their physical appearance. We only provide advice and input. If they behave outside the limit, then they themselves must bear the risk.
Keep a positive relationship. Although teenagers tend not happy interfered with his business, no longer happy to be hugged, but occasionally they need it from you. So, be a friend who is always faithful and always there for them.
Let's start early child education, budayakan give time and a good upbringing for children, maintaining a good relationship with them, being a wise parent, so that later they do not become "too difficult" for us.
Everything, starting from ourselves! You agree?
How to motivate them to stay in a corridor that true?Actually, the strength of the motivation lies in the quality of the relationship between parents and adolescents. If we and the teens have a good relationship and strong, so will the children teen is more likely to have a healthy outlook and tend to be easily motivated.
Mothers who always pay attention to his son, always there when they need it, and wise in dealing with them, or a father who wisely and not authoritarian, willing to take the time to gather with the kids, and able to be a friend to their children, will usually be more easy reliable and more easily followed by their teenage children.
As with the parents who tend to wash their hands, indifferent, lack of care for children, too busy working, authoritarian, and even being too hard on his children. Such parents will be very difficult to manage and motivate their children.
Teenagers can not we treat as a child. But they also can not treat us as adults, although sometimes they try to behave like an adult. We can no longer dictate them to do what we want. However, we must ask what exactly they want from their lives.
Take time. Never use the excuse "busy work" with no attention to your children. The consequences of having children is that we should take the time, how busy, to them. If we are oppressed economic problems, we also still have to give them a special time to give attention to them.
Always ask, what help we can do for them. Not the dictation, but ask. That's the point. By asking and declare our readiness to help them, it would really make them feel significant and appreciated.
Do not go emotional. Teenagers usually tend to be more emotional. So, as parents, we are the ones who should be able to cool. Do not be emotional bandwagon! Because if we go ignited, which is not a solution, but a war! If there is debate, it is useful to step back and say, "Let us cool heads and our hearts first, and we continue this after everything was better and we can together use the language better."
Frequently communicate. Remember, often communicating does not mean nagging or constantly monitor them wherever they go and always wanted to know what they are doing. Not that. But, let them know that we believe they are capable of doing the best things in their lives. For example, they were outside the home, simply send an SMS, "May your activities fun, and she hoped that you could go home for lunch with his mother and sister at home."
Give responsibility. Encourage children to take responsibility for their own personal. For example, they should be responsible for the cleanliness of rooms and their physical appearance. We only provide advice and input. If they behave outside the limit, then they themselves must bear the risk.
Keep a positive relationship. Although teenagers tend not happy interfered with his business, no longer happy to be hugged, but occasionally they need it from you. So, be a friend who is always faithful and always there for them.
Let's start early child education, budayakan give time and a good upbringing for children, maintaining a good relationship with them, being a wise parent, so that later they do not become "too difficult" for us.
Everything, starting from ourselves! You agree?
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